The Psychopaths Among Us

          Occasionally, as I navigate the world that is cyber space, I come across an article that completely nauseates me and then, infuriates me.  Such was the case when I came across an article about Robin Greinke.  A 26 year old Illinois woman who, along with her boyfriend, 33 year old Steven Neil, beat her 3 year old son (yes three) Noah Fake to death for wetting his pants.  They then sat down to a pizza dinner, drank beer and watched a movie.

           Later in the night the mother called authorities to report that "her son was wheezing" and that "she couldn't sleep."  Medics initially believed he was suffering from Meningitis due to the bruising but an autopsy later confirmed he had actually died of blunt force trauma to the head.  Robin Greinke then admitted they had beaten, tossed and punched three year old Noah Fake for wetting his pants.  Robin Greinke beat him for approximately an hour after which her boyfriend then stepped in to continue the beating for another hour.

          I can not imagine what little Three year old Noah endured during his last moments of life.  Although I'd like to believe that he was surrounded by the loving comfort of God and His angels as Noah obviously could not have experienced the loving comfort of a mother.  Not only does my heart ache for Noah, my mind races in an effort to determine what type of person could do such a thing?

          The only answer I can muster for such a question is that there are obviously psychopaths amongst us.  They are raising children, working in our communities and in some cases even attending our churches (as was the case of Dennis Rader, the BTK killer).  The one glaring trait of a true psychopath is a blatant disregard for the rights of others.  The traits that allow most psychopaths to perform unspeakable acts on others are two fold 1) they are often impulsive and fail to plan ahead and 2) they are often irritable and aggressive.  The formula of aggressiveness combined with impulsivity and a blatant disregard for the rights of others makes a perfect recipe for disaster.

          Psychopaths (also known as Antisocial Personality Disorder) often display a lack of empathy for others and have an inflated sense of self.  It is not unusual for them to display grandiose behaviors or even appear cocky and self-assured.  They are typically consistently irresponsible, especially when it comes to job responsibilities or those of raising children.

          In short.... they are members and citizens of society and at times, when the circumstances align themselves accordingly... their explosive, unempathetic nature, rears its ugly head and most of the time, it is the innocent, who are caught in their crosshairs.

         

Drowning Your Sorrows

        


          It's no secret that the economy has been enduring a recession for quite some time now and recent research suggests that more people are drowning their financial sorrows with the help of some alcohol.  Previous research once suggested that drinking and binge drinking declined during a bad economy however recent studies indicate otherwise.

          The following excerpt is from http://www.psychcenteral.com/.  A web site I frequently visit and whose blogs I read daily.  One blog in particular captured my attention, written by David McCracken, MA, LPC and discussed the issue of drinking as it relates to a down economy.  The following excerpt was taken from this blog:

"Health economist Dr. Michael T. French from the University of Miami and his collaborators found that heavy drinking and alcohol abuse/dependence significantly increase as macroeconomic conditions deteriorate.



The study discovered that binge drinking increased with a rise in the state-level unemployment rate. Driving while intoxicated and alcohol abuse and dependence also increased for both genders and across ethnic groups.

Among the study’s other findings:



•The consequences of the unemployment rate on excessive alcohol consumption was demonstrated for all population subgroups in the study, with African-Americans and those aged between 18 and 24 years displaying the largest binge-drinking effect;


•The number of children in the household and being married is negatively related to alcohol abuse and dependence;


•Binge drinking is more common as the educational level and income of individuals increase.


The new study suggests that service providers for alcohol abuse programs should prepare for an increased demand for their services during an economic downturn. Unfortunately, many economists predict the unemployment rate in the United States will remain high for several years.


Source: Health Economics"

Bullying and Suicide

        

           I know I have blogged about bullying before but it has become such an epidemic that I think it warrants a second blog.  It seems that all too often... the consequences of bullying are becoming so severe that adolescents are taking their own lives. (I am sure this will lead me to blog later about the topic of suicide).... but at any rate.. the story below is an account of two adolescents who took their own lives to escape bullying.

Anxiety

          Ahh,... so much to blog about when it comes to mental health but such little time to devote to writing!  So..... I thought my next blog should be about something very common that millions of people experience and live with on a daily basis.  Anxiety is one of the most common issues facing Americans these days.  Everything from Generalized Anxiety Disorder to panic attacks fall under the category of anxiety.  Some people may experience mild anxiety and exhibit symptoms such as worry, dread, fear, rapid heartbeat, sweaty palms or even hyperventilation.  Some individuals learn to manage their anxiety while others find that it interferes with their daily functioning including work, school, social activities and relationships.

          It's easy to assume that those who struggle with severe anxiety (to the point of interference with daily life) might be lacking some essential developmental skill or either have "learned" to "let things bother them," but nothing could be further from the truth!  Anxiety isn't prejudiced, biased, racist or even hypocritical.  It can (and does) affect all different ethnicities, races, both genders and crosses all age spans.  There is no secret formula to determine who will and will not suffer from anxiety.

          Some symptoms of anxiety can include excessive worry and tension, irritibality, muscle tension, headaches, sweating, difficulty concentrating, nausea and/or vomiting, tiredness, trouble falling or staying asleep, trembling or thoughts of impending doom or death.

          If you find yourself experiencing severe anxiety to the point that it has begun to interfere with daily life..... please know that it is ok to GET HELP.  You may not be able to always manage anxiety on your own.  Those who think less of you for seeking help are not worth mentioning in this blog and for others... they can most likely relate to the situation you find yourself in.  Help can range from seeing a psychiatrist for medication treatment or seeing a therapist for possible cognitive behavioral therapy.

          Above all, if you are suffering with severe anxiety (or even mild anxiety) devote some time to yourself and find a way to address and manage your anxiety.  Yes, that is correct.... I used the word MANAGE, because this is what you will need to do to address your anxiety since their is no magic formula to "get rid" of these symptom.  However, please know that they can be managed, there IS help and it is OK to seek it out if you feel you need to.

Depression and the Holidays

  



     Why in the world are the hollidays so stressful, depressing and anxiety provoking for some, yet joyful, fulfilling and satisfying to others?  Those who suffer Depression may likely find themselves more depressed and despondent during the holidays.  This usually occurs because they began to reminesce about loved ones who have passed or "the way things used to be."  It has long been known that those who suffer from chronic depression often have thoughts that "ruminate."  In other words, they continue to think of the same depressing things over and over again.  Yet for others the Holidays can be depressing simply because of all the stress involved.  Especially if you are hosting your in-laws or expected to attend one of the events AT your in-laws. 

     There are three areas where problems during the Holidays have been KNOWN to occur for years!  They include 1) Relationships 2) Finances 3) Physical Demands.

         The information listed below are some recommendations from the Mayo Clinic for having a "joyful" holiday season!!
    1) Acknowledge your feelings.  Don't be afraid to mourn the loss of a loved one or celebrate in something else.

     2) Reach Out.  If you are feeling lonely or isolated during the Holidays.  Don't be afraid to reach out to others for help and/or support.

     3)  Be Realistic.  The holidays will never be "perfect" in the sense that everything we feel we deserve and/or want will come to fruition.  Don't be dissapointed or angry if something doesn't work out according to plans.

     4)  Set Aside Differences.  Familes from all over the country have different ideas when it comes to celebrating the holidays.  Seek someone who is open to the concept of diverse ideas and is willing to understand your specific situation.

     5)  And finally, stick to a budget, learn to say no, don't abandon health habbits, feel free to take a breather and seek professional help if you need it.  Each of these categories represent ideas in which those who are continually depressed during the Holidays find themselves comprimising on.

    

Bullying

  

 Bullying has become such a problem for children in school these days that state legislatures have been forced to pass "anti-bullying statutes" allowing schools to handle and address the problems associated with bullying.  It is estimated that everyday, thousands of children wake up afraid to go to school due to bullying.  Although the exact definition of bullying is debatable, most everyone agrees that it occurs when one person is picked on over and over either by an individual or a group with more power, either in physical strength or social standing.

     The two biggest reasons children are bullied include 1) appearance 2) social status.  Those children who are believed to possess a lower social status or those deemed not as "attractive" as other students are those most likely to be the targets of bullies.  Unfortunately, children who are openly gay or lesbian bear the brunt of bullying although bullies can target individuals because of how they look or act or because of race or religion.

     Bullying may include name calling, social stigmatism, tripping or even physical violence.  Girl bullies may resort to slander, emotional manipulation (inviting someone to a party only to discover there is none), isolating others or even shunning them.  Girls are also known to spread viscious and untrue rumors as well as refer to other girls as "slut," "whore," "bitch," or other degrading names.  In the case of Phoebe Prince, she was cyber bullied as well as bullied at school to the point of committing suicide.  On January 14, 2010 she reportedly hanged herself after relentless bullying by older girls for dating a football player.  In May of 2010 a Jemison, Alabama High School student jumped to her death from an interstate overpass after relentless bullying at school.  There are numerous other stories of children committing suicide due to bullying, hence the need for legislation regulating and controlling this phenomenon.

     TIPS FOR DEALING WITH BULLIES

     1) Ignore the bully and walk away - remember, bullies thrive on the attention they receive from bystanders.  As soon as you begin to feel the victim of a bully attempt to leave the situation to go to the bathroom, the other side of the playground or even go stand near the teacher and strike up a conversation asking a question.

     2) Don't get angry - remember, bullies thrive on knowing they can control your emotions.  If you become visibly angry you have most likely given them the exact thing they are looking for.

     3)  Practice Confidence - practice ways in which to respond to the bully which show you are self confident and have no regard for their opinions.  For instance if your looks have been criticized you may respond with an answer which reflects your complete disregard for their opinion.

Above all, you should TALK about the bullying to someone you can trust and keep going until you find an adult who can help you manage and/or deal with the situation.  No one should have to endure bullying and remember, you are as valuable as YOU feel you are.  Bullies do not get to decide or determine someone's worth as an individual!!

DSM-5

     The DSM-5 also known as the "Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders" is scheduled for release in May of 2013.  The DSM "task force" as they call themselves have worked to develop and implement changes to the current DSM-IV and the new revisions will include updated guidelines for diagnosing and recognizing bipolar disorder as well as schizophrenia.  It is also believed that the upcoming DSM-5 will include the diagnosis of "Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder."

     For social workers working in the area of mental health the DSM manual is often the "guideline" or "blueprint" used in recognizing and identifying different psychiatric conditions.  While in most states (in Alabama for sure) social workers do not "diagnose" patients it is still helpful to know and understand the criteria of the DSM manual when working with patients who have a diagnosed and mental illness and sometimes, even with those who do not have a confirmed diagnosis of a mental illness.

     It is important to note that BEFORE any revisions where made to the DSM field trials "utilizing the new criteria" where completed in two different settings "1) a series of large, academic-medical institutions, and 2) a wide selection of clinical practice settings, such as solo and small group practices," (http://www.dsm5.org/).  The "Task Force" will also be making the topics of "Feeding and Eating Disorders" as well as "Elimination Disorders" part of the DSM-5. 

     "This restructured organization is designed to better reflect scientific advances in our understanding of psychiatric disorders, as well as to make diagnosis easier and more clinician-friendly. For instance, all of the chapters are organized in a developmental lifespan fashion, starting with Neurodevelopmental Disorders, which often are diagnosed in infancy and early childhood, and progressing through diagnostic areas more commonly diagnosed in adulthood, such as Sleep-Wake Disorders. Within each diagnostic category, the individual disorders are similarly arranged such that those typically diagnosed in childhood are listed first," (http://www.dsm5.org/).  

     For those who would like some more information regarding the DSM-5 scheduled for release in 2013 the "task force" has developed a web site filled with information on the new upcoming DSM as well as information regarding revisions.... you can check out their web site at http://www.dsm5.org./